Ask a lovey dovey couple who are veterans from school time, marrying after a decade or the fast actors who tie the knot within a few days or so, the answer about marriage will always be a mixed bag, the good comes with the bad, fun with the sulking and so on. So how is your marriage? While a little bit or even more of troubles are always there, but beyond a certain point, you have to take stock of things. While there may be a number of reasons for marriage troubles, but we are discussing the cold treatment, the distant behavior, the feeling of being with a partner who seems more into something else rather than into you. Is that a lack of love? Is there involvement with someone else? What is stopping your husband or wife from becoming the natural couple that you see everyday, in the movies, in TV shows, in the photos on social network. You have to find out the answers yourself.

This is the question that comes to the mind of the wife or the husband as well, when the partner is either late for the dinner, more often that the normal times, extends the work tour by a day or two everytime, without the regret of missing out in meeting you, after in being away for these many days. Is the husband not making face calls, insists on short voice calls only? Maybe he is not that attracted to you anymore? Perhaps it is the wife that is giving subtle messages hidden in sentences, trying to put you down or slyly comparing you with a lover she may either in thinking about having or things have already moved in that direction or are deep into it. The tell tale signs are always there. This is one of the major reasons for getting the cold shoulder in marriage. Sleeping on the other side of the bed, the cuddle is reduced to a few minutes and then trying to move away. Getting annoyed on small things. If you find these things, then it is time to take action. Another thing to think about is the opposite section scenario i.e. gay or lesbian. Make sure that as a gender you both like each other. 

The thing about being in a cold marriage is to stop thinking and move towards redefining your own life. Getting dependent on the life partner to provide you everything, when they may be busy in their own life, can mean that they no longer feel attracted towards you. Let's see the things that will make your both attractive to your partner and give you a new perspective about life. Hit the gym, become attractive for yourself. Join a hobby class, painting, music, book reading and so on. All of these connect you with new people. You get to discuss both the interests and the personal life. Remember, if your partner is having an affair, then there is nothing much that you can do right now. If you are ok, with your husband, leaving the other woman and settling once again, then you can consider the above options. Another way of taking things, is to start spending time beyond the household and get involved yourself. This could eventually lead to divorce, is something you have to take into consideration.

If you are in a cold marriage, then you have to find the fulfillment that you desire in life. A wife that is busy with the corporate life or has a friend network that refuses to give her the time for husband, can make life tough and uneventful. A husband that remains on office or business tours and on returning, seems like fighting a cold undeclared war with you, is the sign for you to get onboard a dating app. Start by making friends and if things do not work out towards settlement and back to a happy marriage, then move towards divorce and find solace in a partner you can easily find on a dating website. There are websites that specialize in connecting people using video profiles. These help you in remaining safe in a situation where you are already in a relationship but are thinking of moving on. The chances here of being taken advantage of are always there so better to use verified video dating sites (search online to find). Make sure to start in a casual and online relationship only. Once you know that your marriage is beyond repair and love is not there to be found, then make an informed decision.