Many men and women float around looking for love. If you are one of them, then the best thing to do is to stop looking. The best thing to do is to start living well. Focus on working out, dress nicely and develop some hobbies.

Start going to parks, gyms, malls. Make sure to be alone as friends can distract you from your task. When you find the right woman or man, take the opportunity to try to strike up a conversation. If it works, then exchange phone numbers.

If you get the cold shoulder, then just move to the next option. The fast way is to use a video dating and chat site. Search for dating sites with video introductions. These help to connect with real people. See who catches your eye.