A boyfriend who spends a little too much time away from you can make your mind wander a lot about what he is doing right now. Is he flirting with a friend of yours, or chatting with an office friend woman, will it lead to a relationship, and you will be left feeling naive.

If you are facing such an issue with your boyfriend, then it is time to start acting and become a detective before it is too late. The first step is to make a conscious decision on deciding to know about is going on.

Make sure that you give him the goodies at the right time when he needs it. Relationships are made on reciprocation, while you can pester him with calls and give him a hard time, but giving in when he wants you, can make all the difference that he stays with you. Ask him to tell everything about the other girls or women who are around him. The right communication about anything and everything is what is required.

Discuss any fantasies that he may have regarding women. Encourage him to talk about any women he likes in any way, either emotionally or physically. That way he will find it fun to share the flirting with you and you can pick your target women for the surveys to keep the tabs.

Any boyfriend who finds excuses to leave as soon as possible or after he has got what he wants, can come under the suspicion radar. Find a way so that he stays with you for at least two consecutive days. Monitor his activities. See if he is nervous, seems to be lost in thoughts. Try to have conversations. If he does not respond or prefers being solitary or spending excessive time on phone, then these are warning signs.

If days are set for boyfriend and girlfriend time, then there should not be scope for office work or spending time on social networks.